It is a widely popular belief that communication is the key to every good relationship, every successful marriage, and every strong friendship. No matter the relationship, the subject always comes back to communication. Many things can bar the efforts of trying to improve communication between two people in a relationship. It may not be the fault of either party, even though blame is often placed as a way of making sense of the situation. That blame can cause an even larger space between the people who are making an attempt to communicate, could bar the efforts of opening up to each other more and more. Using hypnosis could be an excellent way to ease the stress caused by placing blame and feeling mistrust.
Pinpoint the Cause
There’s a reason that you are not communicating well with your partner. Placing blame will not exactly help either person to open up. This action could actually hurt more than help. When you place blame, you are either admitting fault or asking someone else to do so. This denotes a certain amount of guilt on either you or your partner. That guilt causes negative space. If you’re looking to gain better communication with your partner, than you have to be willing to solve a problem, whatever that may be.
- Admission of a problem is not placing blame. It is important to maintain a modicum of trust in your partner and in yourself.
- Opening up to someone can make you feel vulnerable. This makes it easy to be afraid to open up to another person, to put your trust in them and feel comfortable with yourself as well.
- You have to want it. Both you and your partner have to be willing to make a change, or multiple changes, in order to communicate better. It’s a two way street and you’ll have to walk down it together.
Work Toward a Real Solution
Your hypnotherapist can help you use your subconscious to open up more effective lines of communication. You and your partner may have tried other methods or tools to communicate and found them inadequate. A lot of people find that using tools given to them feels forced. You can use your subconscious to utilize effective tools that are gently suggested to you while your mind is at rest. Without the stress of daily life, of forcing methods that you didn’t come up with yourself, you can much more easily accept new ways of communication with your partner. Through hypnosis, you can put your mind into that relaxed state. Your hypnotherapist can then make the suggestions that you need in order to communicate better. Be clear about your goals with your hypnotherapist. This process is all about you.
You Can Do It!
The most important part of the journey to achieving better communication is to believe that a positive result is possible. Trust that the process will work, that your hypnotherapist is there to help, and that no one is to blame. Don’t let negativity occupy your pursuit of a better relationship!