Valentine’s Day is fast approaching and, while you may have figured out what gift you’d like to surprise your significant other with, you are still wondering about the meaning behind it and the moments leading up to where you stand today. These memories could be happy or difficult, depending on your viewpoint and how open you are to your feelings and the feelings of your partner. Hypnosis can help you directly access your subconscious and learn the underlying issues that might cause common problems in relationships.
Many couples encounter differences that lead to arguments and this is quite average. Common issues involving money, sex, trust, and parenting can start out small and weave their way into your psyche to create arguments that never seem to end. The underlying issues might have nothing to do with your current partner. Deep in your subconscious are learned behaviors ingrained by different experiences. Find out how hypnotherapy can help you boost your subconscious learning and uncover how these behaviors came to be in the first place!
Using Hypnosis to Combat Underlying Issues
You can use hypnotherapy to open a direct path into your subconscious and find the root cause for learned behaviors that may be affecting your current relationship. Some common examples include:
- Trust Issues. The partner that you have now has given you no reason not to trust them around others. They are not the “cheating type” and have been loyal no matter what. Still, there is an anxiety in the back of your mind that makes you question that loyalty. This could be caused by unfaithful partners in the past, or perhaps a parent or loved one who let you down. You associate love with the anxiety of losing or of being betrayed because of these past experiences.
- Money Issues. One of your parents wasn’t good with money and you see similar behaviors in your partner. Maybe you, yourself had issues with money in the past and you see similar warning signs of your own behavior. Every person is different, though. Everyone handles each situation differently. Your money issues or your parents’ do not have to be the same for you and your partner.
- Sex Issues. Issues in this area can be complicated. Anything from past
inadequacies to a very religious or sheltered upbringing, abuse or trauma can cause issues regarding sex. Even health problems can cause issues here. It’s sensitive and often embarrassing to discuss these things but it doesn’t have to be. Use hypnotherapy to not only find the root cause but also to help you address the issues.
- Parenting Issues. Every parent wants his or her child to have the best life possible. For some parents, this means giving them a better life and the drive to do so can cause differences with a partner’s parenting style.
You have to want to make a change. Hypnosisis only the beginning. Use the tools that you learn about with your hypnotherapist to communicate better with your partner. Remember the root causes when arguments begin and learn to surge past them to have a better conversation and progress in a positive manner.
*Disclaimer: Hilary Evans is a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, not a psychiatrist or medical doctor. If you have a psychiatric or medical condition, Hilary will work with you and your doctor provided you bring a referral.